This is more of a personal journal entry, where I want to congratulate myself for cutting off all contact with Amanda today despite her being extremely sexy...
Whereas in years past where I would have kept having sex with her until problems started, this year I ended things with an amiable text, explaining exactly what behavior of hers was the problem and why I feel our expectations for relationships are not aligned. I can safely say she will not be destroying any of my personal property nor causing drama of any kind and I didn't just disappear...
Bravo March 9th 2010 Jon.
Bravo.
JS
PS- R.I.P NOTORIOUS BIG!!!!
good job jon
ReplyDeleteHey I think it could be useful for you to break down the text you sent, not so guys can copy it verbatim...But so that guys can see the structure and thinking behind it - ending any kind of relationship via text is a challenge let alone manning up and confronting the damaging behavior of the person that you're addressing
ReplyDeletehaha, difficult ain't it ??!!
ReplyDeleteBravo Jon! Now when do you think we'll be hearing you on the podcast again?
ReplyDeleteAwesome Jon! I really respect your decision, and hope to take your attitude to a current gf.
ReplyDeleteCheers!
CHODE!!!
ReplyDeletecan we get some mother fuckin pics or what?!?! ahh
ReplyDeleteJon, I like you and think you're a really great guy. Having said that, I have a bit of a challenge for you: DO NOTHING PICKUP RELATED FOR A MONTH. Just go out and be "normal" for 30 days. Then come back and post your experience. Ask yourself, "What do I have to lose, and what do I have to gain?" Personally, I bet you will have the best time of your life.
ReplyDeleteHey guys, quick question
ReplyDeleteCan you break up with someone with a text message?
LOL dude like it fucking matters? If your getting laid whats one trick? You'll be out there getting a shitload more numbers and dates anyway. That being said I love the part about her destroying your personal property, how many times has that happened?
ReplyDeleteI have another question though. Have you ever truly been in love? Me personally I think love is just an evolutionary emotion that makes us want to stay with the possible mother of our child for survival of our genes. Although I think love causes more pain than happiness and I also think a lot of puas distance themself's from getting emotionally attached due to past bad experiences.
@anonymous:
ReplyDeleteis it really important? why don't u start game and use ur own style to do ur thing?