What I've Learned From over a Half Decade in The SUISC

So I've been teasing and tantalizing about this post for quite some time now...

And I even have a soundtrack for it...



"There's ten rules for the Game but I'll share with you two, know niggas gon hate you for whatever you do..."

This was always my flag ship post until the last few years, so it's back only with 2 additional years of learning. So let's get into the stream of consciousness style rants :)

The basic idea is that I list various things I've learned from my time in the SUISC, some of it's game related, some of it's gossip and some unfortunately is just common sense I was lacking :)

Your idols in the community are false. There is literally 0 point in making any of us "gurus". We're all just normal guys who learned or naturally had skills with women. That's all. We're not better than you guys, more alpha, courageous, or any of the other super human attributes that get attributed to guys just because they're supposedly good with women.

There is NO such thing as a perfect pickup. Pick up is all about making mistakes and then trying to fix them.

There is 0 point in whining about the way things are. This could be the way certain girls act like stimulus junkies at clubs, it could be the social status you have in your group, it could be that girls will flirt with you and then makeout with another guy. Accept reality the way it. Self deception only hurts you.

Most guys don't want to be players. Or even have a lifestyle that would allow them to be a player.

Guys have WAY more issues about sex than women. Seriously.

The two biggest sticking points are social and sexual anxiety. Point blank period.

Every guy embellishes their abilities with women, except guys who are amazingly good with them.

How a guy deals with a blowout tells you everything you need to know about his level of skill with girls.

There is an intangible quality to guys that are good with women. I can't explain it, but I can tell when guys have it and when they don't and women can tell even faster than I can. Especially hot ones.

The importance of touching to escalate towards sex is vastly overrated.

Being true to yourself creates more sticking points. It's not like once you figure out who you want to convey yourself to be, all your problems with women go away.

Learning to suppress the need to impress people will help your game more than anything else you can do.

It is far better to overescalate than underescalate. As Warren Beatty once famously said "You get slapped a lot but you get laid a lot too."

99% of the population cares less about this stuff than you do if you're reading this right now. That's called an obsession and it's a bit unhealthy. So you may want to try caring a little less about getting laid. I include myself in this previous paragraph.

There is no such thing as community in the community. Communities support each other, offer help and display a genuine caring for the people in it. The SUISC consists of guys bragging, guys asking for help from the guys bragging, a lot of in fighting and drama, a lot of bullshit information, and a ton of haters.

No one invented any of this stuff, so it's stupid to be dogmatic about following it and even stupider to argue over whose material something is. I know I used to do that a lot :p

Lifestyle will get you laid way more than skillsets or inner game. It's a fact.

Women do not have to like you in order to sleep with you.

Being known for hitting on girls is actually a good thing. Being a professional pua, not so much :)

If you're in the community, it's because something is not normal about you. Sorry to be the one to say it, but it's true. This doesn't mean you're a bad person or a nerd, or a loser. It simply means there is a reason you ended up here, and most guys don't. Embrace it. Again, I include myself and all instructors at every company in this statement.

The community is not, has never been and will never be a "cool" or mainstream thing. People just don't care that much.

The only person you have to compete with, compare yourself to or impress is yourself. In fact the only person who really cares about your success with women is you.

Qualification and movement are the keys to game. These are what allow you to escalate and move the interaction forward.

Don't be afraid to hit on girls, they think you are anyway!

Women are WAY cooler than men, easier to deal with, less stupid ego issues. More emotions mean you can overreact to things without it being a big deal. As I always say to girls, I can tell my female friends I hate them at 2PM and by 7 we're cool again. If I tell a guy that we're no longer friends. It took me awhile to get here, but I think I'm now an rampant feminist :)

Peaks and Valleys are an inevitable part of the game, everyone has them. Some nights you can;t do anything wrong, other nights, nothing works. Embrace this fact.

Here's what I mean when I say someone is good with girls; They can sleep with a new ATTRACTIVE girl every week from cold approaches. I realize this is ridiculous and most guys will NEVER get there. But still...

Allright that's all I got

Oh, and David Wygant is a bitch :)

JS-The King Of Content