This is really the most exciting stuff that I've ever run into in the community, if you guys were lucky enough to be in NY for Day game a month ago, or Phoenix, or NY this last weekend you guys have gotten a taste of Advanced Comfort.
How this system came to be was as Future and I have become better friends, I would notice that he was getting reactions from girls unlike ANYTHING I had ever seen before, basically girls fell MADLY in love with him. He also didn't get LMR and converted every day 2. in fact recently he helped me when I was having some problems with HB perfect stripper. The guy's comfort game is better than ANYONE I've seen.
So I started to look at what exactly he was doing and over the course of about 6 months we have backwards engineered comfort to produce THE EXACT SAME RESULTS. It truly is the most powerful system I have ever seen for making woman truly crazy about you. Here's a brief preview, plus a couple of new things I noticed tonight. This system was responsible for 16 lays of mine in late June early July of last year.
1. Passion/Purpose- You must be able to convey to her convincingly that you are a man of a greater purpose. That you are going places she will want to be. You are driven to pursue your life goals and do so without any sort of hesitation. In fact your purpose has driven you to become pre-selected by women, a leader of men and a protector of your loved ones.
2. Seeing her the way she wants to be seen. Every woman has a purpose that she secretly strives to achieve. there is a reason why she does what she does, or doesn't do what she wants to. Find out what this value is and you will be able to give her the most amazing compliments she has ever heard. She needs to feel that you see her, as the person that little girl inside her yearns to be.
3. Hot/Cold. The hot comes in the form of the most amazing compliments she has ever heard, the cold comes in the form of SMALL releases. I.E you are absolutely amazing and whatever you want to be I can see you doing that because of x,y and z. Too bad you're such a douche bag. The key is that you do not tell her that she doesn't have what it takes to be who she wants to become.
4. Future Projections- This is different from future adventure projections, which are silly. These are plans that you are making with her anytime from a week to a year down the road, that show her that you are a man of action and she can come along if she wishes.
5. Emotional Honesty- The second part of future plans, is that EVERYTHING that you say you are going to do, you must do. If she ever feels that you are not truthful, the entire power of Advanced Comfort will be lost as she will not believe that you actually see her that way. She will think you are just trying to get into her pants.
6. Whirlwind Courtship- Advanced comfort breaks the rules of only seeing a woman once a week or talking to her once a day. In fact the more time you log, the more powerful the method is as it is further reinforcing your legitimacy.
7. The feeling that both of you are bound for greatness and you are on the same path. The key to this is to show her that you are going to be someone AMAZING, then ratifying that she can be someone amazing and helping her on her path. pushing her in the right directions the way someone did for you earlier. You guys are on the same path, you just happen to be further along.
This is all based on stuff that Future did naturally that I have backwards engineered. This is the real deal. Technology is morally neutral but if you have an undertanding of this, I implore you guys not to use it the wrong way.
This will become a product and a stand alone seminar soon. But I wanted to get this out of my head while I was thinking about it.
What is it in the formula that accounts for the lack of LMR?
ReplyDeleteI remember you mentioning (Las Vegas BC) your SP of having girls see you as excellent BF material and that leading to tons of LMR ("don't wanna give up the trim to quick 'cause I want him to stick around") yet you write of Future: "girls fell MADLY in love with him. He also didn't get LMR and converted every day 2."
What was the missing piece.
Yeah, I can see Points 1-7 synerigistically creating MASSIVE amounts of Attraction AND Comfort (can we all say MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF FRAME CONTROL REQUIRED - DO NOT ATTEMPT THIS WITHOUT ADULT SUPERVISION).
Point 2 obviously requires an NLP-style elicitation routine. What questions does/do Future/you use?
I agree that this is VERY exciting stuff.
Once again you have noted, elicited, modeled, tested excellence and then offered INTENSE, INTERESTING, and INVALUABLE insights on The Game to the Community at large.
I hate you.
+Amazing! This this is not a technique but rather being the best person u can be! The girls attract to u like a magnet, even your oneitis girls!
ReplyDeleteperfect timing bro, thanks a million
ReplyDelete-- beek
Thanks, Sinn. Very interesting post.
ReplyDeleteSinn,
ReplyDeleteAdvanced comfort seems powerful and potentially hurtful. Making (or taking actions to cause) ladies to emotionally fall for men, when the men are more interested in lays than love seems dangerous (to the ladies who fall).
I like the warning at the end of your blog but what ever came of the 16 early summer lays? (let's not call them ladies since they obviously don't deserve such referencing).
I truly believe you when you say this community can change the lives of men. I'm just left wondering how the women's lives are affected.
I know this is neither the time, the place, or the outlet but I'd like to see a serious discussion about women or ethics or morality in this community of men amongst men doing manly things to impress other men.
I also believe you are a very influential member of this community and that you can facilitate and enhance such a discussion. But are you up for the challenge? Or should we make it a bet?
Oh the other hand, I'm just a girl, what do I know?
Ana Renee
Kidd- I have to leave somethings unsaid to allow us to actually make a product, so I will have to respectfully dodge both of your questions, and say wait for the product.
ReplyDeleteAna-
Of the 16 girls I still regularly see 1 of them, the rest fell by the wayside. None of them were hurt as I always preface anytype of relationship by talking about how I am not ready to settle down. Even though they are amazing. You don't need to lie at all to do this stuff, all it requires is that you are sensory aware enough and interested enough to figure her out. I honestly can think of no greater compliment. I wrote a post on misogyny and the community on the forum a ways back you can check that out. As far as the morals of this Future and I debated whether or not we even wanted to teach this, and concluded that if we could help one guy to actually land the girl of his dreams, then it was all worth it. I still stand by that notion.
Sounds interesting. Glad to see you guys keep innovating and pushing the community forward.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was an AFC, comfort was my stock and trade. I could cold approach an HB10 and know her deepest darkest secrets within a week. The real trick is seamlessly intigrating attraction, while still keeping that intense comfort building skill and genuine interest in learning about her.
ReplyDeleteI wholehearted look forward to learning more about this process.
P.S. Nice release Kidd!
Hey Mr. Sinn,
ReplyDeleteI'm in college now and was wondering if you have any advice on how to get better with women. I'm 21 and go to university here in the US.
Later bro,
Jason
This is absolutely brilliant. This is like Comfort on roids.
ReplyDeleteIt sucks, man... we both want to talk about this so damned much, spill all the beans... Interesting about number 7.
ReplyDelete(I think it was 7.)
Makes sense considering the text I read at seminar. Makes perfect sense, actually. I'm teaching it again this weekend at Montreal. We'll see how it goes over. I'll record it so you can take a listen. Have fun in Dallas, killer.
Sinn,
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to this material.
AJ
Outstanding. Any ideas on a release date? I agree with you Sinn, if this helps even one guy land that girl of his dreams, that is totally cool. If this is applied improperly and abused, so long as you are warning people ahead of time as you have done, then that abuse is something that person will have to live with on his own. There are no man-made products for the soul.
ReplyDeleteOutstanding as always.
Outstanding. Any ideas on a release date? I agree with you Sinn, if this helps even one guy land that girl of his dreams, that is totally cool. If this is applied improperly and abused, so long as you are warning people ahead of time as you have done, then that abuse is something that person will have to live with on his own. There are no man-made products for the soul.
ReplyDeleteOutstanding as always.
Sinn,
ReplyDeleteI agree helping men find the women of their dreams is an honorable pursuit. Keep up the good work. May you find yours.
Thanks,
Ana Renee
Sinn wrote:
ReplyDelete'Technology is morally neutral but if you have an undertanding of this, I implore you guys not to use it the wrong way.'
You had 16 girls, and none of them were hurt. I find this hard to believe considering you said Future had girls fally MADLY in love with him. What happens to his girls???
Essentially you're faking total commonality and shared values...
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"7. The feeling that both of you are bound for greatness and you are on the same path. The key to this is to show her that you are going to be someone AMAZING, then ratifying that she can be someone amazing and helping her on her path. pushing her in the right directions the way someone did for you earlier. You guys are on the same path, you just happen to be further along."
Wow. Those girls must have felt they found the man of their dreams, and when you put the brakes on? no one got hurt, or felt like they'd been had? I find this hard to believe.
One of my ex's was on receiving end of this 'we were meant for each other' talk. SO, she opened her heart up for him...and then her legs. Of course, he had to 'move on'. ***I*** was left cleaning up the emotional damage left over by this guy.
Pls explain how this doesn't happen with you or Futur.
Humans have the amazing ability to rationalize, quite literally, anything.
ReplyDelete"...then ratifying that she can be someone amazing and helping her on her path."
Do you "help her on her path" to amazing-ness? Or to achieving one of her life dreams?
If this were sincere, you'd need to spend ALL of your time just to help those last 16 lays achieve even a small fraction of this.
This is deception and manipulation to achieve a desired end result.