tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post8179195444247375501..comments2023-10-06T05:49:40.072-07:00Comments on The Sinns Of Attraction: Lessons Learned From Students Part 1 of 5- The AdmiralAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04097455056456895956noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-9656581930728641032009-08-18T17:06:59.773-07:002009-08-18T17:06:59.773-07:00Hi Sinn.
Can you tell us how we can design our o...Hi Sinn.<br /><br /><br />Can you tell us how we can design our own waking excercises ?<br /><br />I'm carrying massive AA, and I'd love to get past it.<br /><br />If I could figure out how to do an excercise like the one that you gave the admiral, I would use it.<br /><br />Thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-26383369652754567412009-08-11T12:25:57.712-07:002009-08-11T12:25:57.712-07:00Great story.
I'm not surprised the Psycho-Cyb...Great story.<br /><br />I'm not surprised the Psycho-Cybernetics worked at all.<br /><br />In my experience, the root of sticking points really lay in the subconscious. So, using the conscious mind ( via reframing, a conscious mind technique ) is like solving a math problem with colors.<br /><br />Since the unconscious communicates in symbols, the best way to 'talk to it' is in symbols. Well, using your imagination proactively is making symbols in the mind. This way the unconscious can stand a chance of grasping what the conscious mind is telling it.<br /><br />So, I've been through a number of NLP, Self Help, and Tony Robbins books. Of course they CAN'T work, they can't, they're using the wrong tool for the job.<br /><br />So, I'd just junk all that. And go into the world of symbols, that's how the unconscious communicates to us.<br /><br />This is like a muscle too. The more you do it, the better you get at it.<br /><br />The best product I've seen for this is by Paul Mckenna, called "Hypnosis" or something...I can't remember. It's old, and it gets straight to the point....no fluff.<br /><br />He says ALL the right things within 18 minutes.<br /><br />Close your eyes.<br />see yourself ( a visual )<br />hear what's going on ( auditory)<br />feel the air( kinesthetic)<br />smell the smell ( olfactory)<br />taste<br /><br />There you go. If a guy practices this enough, if something is scaring him....he'll hit it in this imagination exercise, and then can talk it out. Then, once it's talked out, move on to the next piece.<br /><br />There's really nothing better than this. It's so simple. The subconscious doesn't know the difference between reality and fantasy, if you don't believe me, have you ever had a dream that has knocked you on your ass....most people have....and it's not even real...that's the power of the subconscious, and it doesn't use reason to communicate with you, it uses symbols.<br /><br />If the sticking point is really threatening, you can expect a lot of resistance from the ego if you try this exercise "this is stupid" "hey I just remembered something" "have you tried x"...bla, bla, bla....rationalization.<br /><br />So, the deal here is not to bash down the ego...because there will be blowback, but, just accept it.<br /><br />"yes, I have seen x, would it be okay if we did the imagination exercise again, but this time, 3% stronger?"<br /><br />and work it like that.Markusnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-72010842217183481972009-08-11T10:38:16.225-07:002009-08-11T10:38:16.225-07:00Hey Jon,
Awesome post bro,
Definitely your right...Hey Jon,<br /><br />Awesome post bro,<br /><br />Definitely your right on target with Affirmations prior to approach but i learned something similar but different recently that helped me out a lot in most areas of life because I am a stubborn bastard at times....<br /><br />It's called Afformations, it's asking a positive affirming question such as,<br /><br />"Why am I so good with getting hot women to like me?"<br /><br />Asking it forces your brain to do what it knows how to do best, answer your question, and usually you get it back (if it was in a positive sense)... as, "because you are great you look good,etc"<br /><br />Hope this helps out as well.Adilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07482919904533565127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-82377038551660406362009-08-11T09:59:50.619-07:002009-08-11T09:59:50.619-07:00Yes as an "older" guy (past 40), is what...Yes as an "older" guy (past 40), is what other helpful ideas can you provide? I have purchased some other products on dating younger women and most are a real joke. They tell you to dress up in suits, hang around colleges, find female friends and bring them in with you to clubs - I mean come on, lets get real here. Your idea(s) seems to be the only good ones out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-72582310531062228062009-08-11T09:41:04.205-07:002009-08-11T09:41:04.205-07:00Just started following you blog from the Jerry Sie...Just started following you blog from the Jerry Sienfield post. I like to see you as another guy ntos ome pua god and this grounds you in my mind.<br /><br />super good<br /><br />Mikey BAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-55436662423616477402009-08-10T22:19:13.783-07:002009-08-10T22:19:13.783-07:00can we get some thoughts on how to best learn NLPcan we get some thoughts on how to best learn NLPUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09018918973408546919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-41939782237641313492009-08-10T22:18:42.433-07:002009-08-10T22:18:42.433-07:00can we get some thoughts on the best way to learn ...can we get some thoughts on the best way to learn NLPUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09018918973408546919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-11781288757057108432009-08-10T19:29:39.263-07:002009-08-10T19:29:39.263-07:00Gotta admit I am afraid of being seen as the "...Gotta admit I am afraid of being seen as the "creepy older guy" too.<br /><br />So would you recommend this course for any guy out there with this issue?<br />1. realize it's your behaviour and not YOU (behaviour can be changed)<br />2. mentally rehearse approaching daily<br />3. get out and approach until you realise this limitation/fear is only in your headRodneynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-47750500641901418632009-08-10T18:52:38.933-07:002009-08-10T18:52:38.933-07:00Great post Jon, I'm looking forward to the nex...Great post Jon, I'm looking forward to the next four in the series.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-22083243721774512952009-08-10T17:29:07.925-07:002009-08-10T17:29:07.925-07:00Hey John I really appreciate that you mentioned a ...Hey John I really appreciate that you mentioned a bit on mentally rehearsing going through a set. I always thought I was odd and lame for doing so but now that you mentioned it, and the student example, I can see some importance in it.Benzenenoreply@blogger.com