tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post6326890243776926710..comments2023-10-06T05:49:40.072-07:00Comments on The Sinns Of Attraction: Coming Off Try Hard...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04097455056456895956noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-86423644527335362862010-07-06T10:52:55.388-07:002010-07-06T10:52:55.388-07:00Yeah I think this is a bit like 'beginners luc...Yeah I think this is a bit like 'beginners luck' - the first few months you learn the basics and they work! You make good progress. But then you get hooked on 'Game' and start getting too deep with all this other stuff and mixing it all up. Then losing sight of what the key basic things that work vs are just fluff so in the end your success goes down as you get more confused and disillusioned.<br /><br />The good news in my experience is that, at this point you start to realize that chasing women for sex doesn't bring true happiness anyway and that there are more fulfilling things in life to focus on - like just being more social, making more effort with people, maintaining friendships, cutting negative people out, giving (without expecting) and just being a cooler person.sub5tancenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-64578209523487428682010-06-23T05:43:15.487-07:002010-06-23T05:43:15.487-07:00love!! this post for surelove!! this post for sureAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-8683283541202269882010-06-22T22:15:13.710-07:002010-06-22T22:15:13.710-07:00Hey sinn im dont quite understand the post. can yo...Hey sinn im dont quite understand the post. can you say more? Like give specific examples of a guy being try hard. For example <br />Joe schmo: <br />Girl:Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-2892581243617194872010-06-22T12:17:52.558-07:002010-06-22T12:17:52.558-07:00Although I think it's true you should know whe...Although I think it's true you should know when to walk away, I cannot agree on the fact that not every girl out there can like you.<br /><br />In my opinion, every guy has certain positive aspects of his life that can get a girl to like you. Okay, maybe not every guy (if your life is build around something completely boring and useless), but the normal, fun and social guys do. And let's face it: If you have the lifestyle that can get some girls to like you, it's only necessary to focus on the good parts of that lifestyle to get all the girls to like you. <br />Of course, these positive aspects may be different from girl to girl, but if you highlight your good sides, she cannot hate you. Even if you're a complete dork but you have the balls to admit it and care to do something about it, she may not be attracted to you, but she can't hate you.Bitsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-40181576438637287182010-06-21T18:16:50.199-07:002010-06-21T18:16:50.199-07:00wow this was like my biggest sticking point and yo...wow this was like my biggest sticking point and you just hit the nail on the headAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-51487374221630185542010-06-21T12:39:33.122-07:002010-06-21T12:39:33.122-07:00This is an absolutely money post sinn. The thing I...This is an absolutely money post sinn. The thing I like about your blog is you are constantly pumping out fresh content for guys at all levels.<br /><br />I think you have mentioned this before, but this phase of an interaction, where the guy is trying to hard, is a great spot to Break Rapport.<br /><br />Once the girl is invested, trying to impress her is the opposite of what you should be doing. Its almost akin to dangling a string in front of a kitten as opposed to shoving the string down the kittens throat. <br /><br />I'd love to see you write some posts in the future about breaking rapport and qualification. You are the best in the biz i have ever seen at explaining these concepts.<br /><br />Also if you have a little more time I'd love to see more about the model that you laid out in the 2008 Under 21 Convention speech, which i think is one of the most complete models of seduction ever compiled.<br /><br />Keep it sleazy,<br /><br />FadeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com