tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post4874813871179182907..comments2023-10-06T05:49:40.072-07:00Comments on The Sinns Of Attraction: Explaining indifferenceAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04097455056456895956noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-81697285634536343342007-05-17T10:01:00.000-07:002007-05-17T10:01:00.000-07:00diam sinn, that was good!diam sinn, that was good!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-90210880323468875082007-05-10T09:59:00.000-07:002007-05-10T09:59:00.000-07:00Amazing comment, Sinn. I will try to live by this...Amazing comment, Sinn. I will try to live by this.<BR/><BR/>Be indifferent to outcome, not people. Love it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-5259722583795042692007-05-09T11:59:00.000-07:002007-05-09T11:59:00.000-07:00Haha you can't beat dem fake PUA's...Who remembers...Haha you can't beat dem fake PUA's...<BR/><BR/>Who remembers Style on the VA forum: ''I'm above BF destroyers, I jsut walk into the bastard's house and blow his brains out, then the girl has no bf! Or i suppose you guys can do it the hard way....''<BR/><BR/>Wonder if it's the same guy. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-84526066870243309292007-05-09T09:13:00.000-07:002007-05-09T09:13:00.000-07:00Some retard posted a comment above as me. I agree ...Some retard posted a comment above as me. I agree with this post and the idea of indifference. I used to have a signature and posted a few times about the flip side but called it "Reactionism" and deemed it the number one enemy of all PUAs.<BR/><BR/>~ The REAL Captain Jack ~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-78806589328046982992007-05-09T04:58:00.000-07:002007-05-09T04:58:00.000-07:00I know what you mean Sinn. Letting go of your desi...I know what you mean Sinn. Letting go of your desire, just hanging out and having fun. No outcome dependence.<BR/><BR/>Never fails.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-29600228264912841202007-05-09T04:16:00.000-07:002007-05-09T04:16:00.000-07:00Hmmm. My personal interpretation is that you are a...Hmmm. My personal interpretation is that you are actually using the concept of indifference to explain the subtle two sides of motivation: Need and Want.<BR/><BR/>Far from being indifferent, I think it's important to WANT an outcome. I DO however, think it's MORE important to NOT NEED an outcome. But WANT and NEED both drive people, particularly in this community.<BR/><BR/>I think that someone pursuing women out of NEED views his successes as merely satisfying (i.e. filling that bucket with a hole in it - a temporary fill that will soon run out) although he may tell himself otherwise, and views his failures as, well, quite possibly crippling. Depending on cold hard technique, this attitude can be compensated for to produce general success, but leads to that social robot situation you aptly describe.<BR/><BR/>However, someone who pursues women out of WANT, who genuinely does NOT NEED (notably this is often a by-product of genuine abundance), views his successes as such - a beautiful accompaniment to an already full life, the cherry on top as-it-were. His failures do not even warrant the coldly logical word. They are simply learning experiences.<BR/><BR/>For instance, in my head, I have a nice big treasure chest of all the good compliments given to me by beautiful women - you know, the ones you know they meant. It's nice to remember these things. I enjoy them. I have no such box for insults.<BR/><BR/>Enjoying your (logical) successes and holding your (logical) failures as nothing more than another opportunity to learn something, is the key (in my opinion) to truly solid inner game.<BR/><BR/><BR/>As an aside, indifference as a technique is simply how you BEGIN in terms of INDIRECT game - and it works as a clear expression of that lack of need. You're of course supposed to be building a mutual seduction, so don't hang on to it! As for DIRECT game, since you've already waltzed in with a truckload of want, you have to communicate that lack of need in other ways (i.e. qualifying right through to takeaways etc.)<BR/><BR/><BR/>Hope I've added something helpful here! :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>JustCallMeDanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-3110828713347095282007-05-09T00:03:00.001-07:002007-05-09T00:03:00.001-07:00Not good.Not good.Seduction Dramahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02688481577204116313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-23594637793644924002007-05-09T00:03:00.000-07:002007-05-09T00:03:00.000-07:00I don't know i think your theory is off a little b...I don't know i think your theory is off a little bit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-22363164018464409782007-05-09T00:02:00.002-07:002007-05-09T00:02:00.002-07:00I disagree with this one sinn.~CJ~I disagree with this one sinn.<BR/><BR/>~CJ~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-20597307716260246492007-05-09T00:02:00.001-07:002007-05-09T00:02:00.001-07:00amazing post sinn.amazing post sinn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-91066092875710759512007-05-09T00:02:00.000-07:002007-05-09T00:02:00.000-07:00Sinn, will you be my guru?Sinn, will you be my guru?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36873781.post-3604969120499164402007-05-08T23:12:00.000-07:002007-05-08T23:12:00.000-07:00Wow, thanks for taking the time to that Sinn, beau...Wow, thanks for taking the time to that Sinn, beautifully writtenJason Abdianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14024714661661548749noreply@blogger.com